Safety & Security

At FabMeet, we're committed to creating a safe environment for meaningful connections. While we work hard to keep our platform secure, your safety also depends on the choices you make. Here's everything you need to know about staying safe on FabMeet.

Our Safety Features

1. Verified Profiles

All users must complete our verification process. This significantly reduces fake profiles, catfishing, and scams. Look for the verified badge on profiles. Learn more about verification →

2. Photo Verification

Our AI-powered photo verification ensures that profile photos match the actual person. This helps prevent impersonation and deceptive profiles.

3. Report & Block Tools

Easily report inappropriate behavior or block users who make you uncomfortable. Our safety team reviews all reports within 24 hours.

4. Privacy Controls

Control who can see your profile, manage your visibility, and decide what information to share. Your phone number and email are never visible to other users.

5. Secure Messaging

All messages are encrypted and monitored for inappropriate content. We use AI to detect and flag potentially harmful messages.

6. 24/7 Monitoring

Our safety team monitors the platform around the clock for suspicious activity, fake profiles, and policy violations.

Online Safety Tips

Protect Your Personal Information

• Don't share: Full name, home address, workplace, phone number, or email until you're comfortable
• Use the app: Keep conversations on FabMeet until you trust the person
• Be cautious: Don't share financial information or send money to anyone
• Social media: Be careful about sharing social media profiles too early

Recognize Red Flags

Be wary if someone:

• Asks for money or financial help
• Professes love very quickly
• Refuses to video chat or meet in person
• Has inconsistencies in their story
• Pressures you to move off the app immediately
• Asks for explicit photos or videos
• Makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe
• Won't verify their identity

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels off, it probably is. Don't ignore your gut feelings. It's always better to be cautious and end a conversation than to put yourself at risk.

Meeting in Person

Before the First Date

• Video chat first: Have a video call before meeting in person
• Verify identity: Make sure they match their photos and profile
• Google them: Do a quick online search if you know their full name
• Tell someone: Let a friend or family member know where you're going and who you're meeting
• Share details: Send your date's profile and meeting location to a trusted person

During the First Date

• Meet in public: Always choose a busy, public place for first dates
• Arrange your own transportation: Don't let them pick you up or drop you off
• Stay sober: Keep your wits about you; don't drink excessively
• Watch your drink: Never leave your drink unattended
• Keep your phone charged: Ensure you can call for help if needed
• Check in: Text a friend during the date to let them know you're okay
• Trust your gut: If you feel uncomfortable, leave immediately

Safe First Date Ideas

• Coffee shop during daytime
• Lunch at a busy restaurant
• Walk in a popular park
• Museum or art gallery
• Bookstore or library
• Farmers market or food festival

Avoid for First Dates

• Your home or their home
• Isolated or remote locations
• Late night meetings
• Anywhere that requires long travel

Recognizing Scams

Romance Scams

Warning signs:

• Claims to be working overseas or in the military
• Has a sob story about financial troubles
• Asks for money for emergencies, medical bills, or travel
• Wants to move the conversation off the app quickly
• Uses overly romantic language very quickly

Catfishing

Signs someone may be catfishing:

• Refuses to video chat
• Makes excuses to avoid meeting in person
• Photos look too perfect or professional
• Reverse image search finds their photos elsewhere
• Story doesn't add up or changes frequently

What to Do

If you suspect a scam:

• Stop communicating immediately
• Don't send money or personal information
• Report the profile to FabMeet
• Block the user
• Report to local authorities if you've lost money

Sexual Safety

Consent is Essential

• Consent must be clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing
• You can change your mind at any time
• Being on a date doesn't mean consent to anything
• Alcohol or drugs cannot give consent

Practice Safe Sex

• Use protection to prevent STIs and pregnancy
• Discuss sexual health and testing openly
• Know your status and encourage partners to do the same

If Something Goes Wrong

On the App

• Report: Use the report button on any profile or message
• Block: Block users who make you uncomfortable
• Contact us: Email safety@fabmeet.com for urgent safety concerns

In Person

• Leave immediately: If you feel unsafe, leave the situation
• Call for help: Don't hesitate to call 911 if you're in danger
• Tell someone: Contact a friend or family member
• Report to police: File a report if you've been assaulted or threatened

Emergency Resources

United States

• Emergency: 911
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
• National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN)
• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

Online Resources

• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
• National Domestic Violence Hotline
• FTC Romance Scams Information

Our Commitment to You

FabMeet is dedicated to maintaining a safe platform. We continuously improve our safety features, work with safety experts, and respond quickly to reports. However, your safety also depends on your choices and awareness.

If you have suggestions for improving safety on FabMeet, please contact us. We value your feedback and are always looking for ways to make our community safer.